Preparing Your Child for Independent School Interviews

If your child is applying to independent schools, an important factor in their admissions process will be the interview. While each student will have a unique experience with the interview, you can still help them prepare.

1. Research the School

Of course, you know everything about the schools your family is applying to, but make sure your child knows exactly why they’d be a good fit there. Are there any classes or teachers that they are excited to study with? Are there extracurricular activities they’re looking forward to participating in? What do they connect with in the school’s mission and values? The more specific your student can be about why they are interested in the school, the better!

2. Practice Effective Communication

Attuned social skills and a mature demeanor will help your child excel at their interview. Talk with them about minimizing filler words like “um” and “like,” and sitting up straight. Have them practice shaking hands, smiling, and making eye contact while speaking. They might feel awkward in the interview, but they only have one chance to make a first impression! Running a mock interview with your student can be a great way to minimize any nervous jitters. 

3. Be Ready for Anything

Although the questions the interviewer will ask may vary from school to school, there are a few key topics that will come up. These may include:

• What would you like to accomplish at our school, both academically and through extracurricular activities?
• Why are you interested in our school specifically?
• What are your academic strengths and weaknesses?
• What do you like to do in your free time?
• What is the last book you read and what did you think of it?
• What current events have interested you recently?
• Name a challenge you have faced and explain how you overcame it.

Have your child write brief responses to these questions prior to the interview, so that they have time to think deeply about their responses. Their answers will be most compelling if they include specific examples and concrete evidence from their life. Make sure to steer away from clichés—your child is unique, so make sure they are prepared to talk about their dynamic interests and activities!

4. Demonstrate a Growth Mindset

Most importantly, make sure that your child demonstrates a willingness to grow and learn during their interview. Schools want to see genuine, thoughtful students who are eager to try new things. Make sure that your child stays positive and open-minded throughout the interview. Encourage them to speak politely and sincerely about the things they care about. Many students have lists of accolades and great grades—a humble, poised, and honest attitude will help your child stand out!